Its not a ram issue, well it doesnt look like it. Ive got the window up, ive got it "running" xfce- an error box saying: Unable to load a failsafe session Unable to determine failsafe session name. Possible causes xconfd isn't running (D-Bus setup problem); environment variable $XDG_CONFIG_DIRS is set incorrectly (must include "/etc") or xfce4-session is installed incorrectly.