the best ones is now.at meego.com and on irc (that means those people who actually contribute and is creative instead of sittng on tmo and whine.

To be true. most of TMO is now soapopera/childish, whining and FUD. And I must admit I am also the "badguy" I am also good on starting stupid flamewars instead of being creative and contribute :/

Soo actually I can understand people who leaves...

TMO is halfdead already... but I can recomend people who still like maemo/meego to take close look at:

http://plus.google.com alot of meego contrib are members.
IRC channels at freenode.net
meego mailinglista and meego forum
and for swedish people: meegosweden.com

and also instead of sittinhg her try latest build of N900CE and also install qt-compoents and start make apps