I'm still stuck on finding the right fuse module. As alexc suggested I went back and linked /lib/modules/2.6.21-omap1/extra/fuse.ko to /usr/lib/fuse/fuse.ko and rebooted
Still no luck using sshfs - it fails on trying to loading the module. I looked around and have not found any other fuse modules that could be screwing things up. I tried an insmod on /lib/modules/2.6.21-omap1/extra/fuse.ko and get this same error:
For kicks I rmmod the nfs module and added it with insmod just fine. Does fuse require a dependency I need to load first?
Where else should I look for old fuse modules to get rid of them?