ok. i fixed it.

here is what i did.

i am using outlook 2010.

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in outlook:
file/account settings/account settings

go to the data files tab

create new (create a new pst file name where you want it to be.)

select it as the default, and then agree to everything.

clost outlook, open outlook.

you should now have an empty outlook pst with no calendar or contacts.

sync your data back from your phone to your outlook...or


you can open the calendar, and select all, then paste in your new calendar. (i do not recommend doing this as there is a bug somewhere, or you wouldnt have this problem.)

you can also, copy all and paste the contacts.

then it should sync fine.