my advice is to spend this next week looking at what you use your phone for most. be logical. for example my needs are:
must have good call quality and signal quality because i spend a lot of time talking on the phone.
The battery must be decent enough to last a whole day with med/heavy use.
if it has no physical keys it must have a good vkb because i'm a heavy txter.
i do use the web on the go so good browser.
i need a decent email client.
i IM through skype frequently
it has to be able to multi task as i tend to have multiple things going eg browser, conversations and notes.

lots of phones can fit that bill for me. some are better in some area's then others. if i take all my usages and needs and then weigh up phones that look decent and i like i'll see what fits me.
you don't owe nokia or google or any company anything. don't be convinced by zealots from the different camps. Base your choice on what you do with it and how it feels for you. i go into the phone shop and test out new phones all the time to see if i like them.