Hi Snowparang,
First, let me say I completely agree with you about the in-built Facebook app. It is a pain and has a few bugs that need to be corrected. Messages are not very reliable and it is generally quite slow

I do use the facebook touch site and fMobi as an alternatives.

There are some great developers on here that might find hack for your request, but I imagine that aegis will be a huge obstacle.

Meanwhile, the Facebook (in-built) app has a number of bugs registered with Nokia and these will hopefully be sorted in PR1.2 in the New Year.

Sorry, I could not be of more help; but I do empathise! .