From this response I think that you don't understand the problem. The problem is that doesn't want to admit that he cant handle the things he started. That is it. No one will by angry at him if he will say: finito, I'm done, I can not pull this longer. This would be clear and why one would like to blaim him? For what. Instead on IRC he always is stating that there are no problems everything works ok, he can handle everything and that changes or help is not needed. Something is wrong because obviously it is the other way.