If you need your phone to play video at the same speed and quality as a 40 inch HDTV does, you need to pick one specialized for that task. (So far, the HTC top-of-the-line phone, called "Rezound" in Verzion's lineup, is the only one that has a native 720p screen resolution, and so is the first one I'd actually consider decent for playing real HD video.)
Remember, you're asking your phone to become a high-definition television set. The hardware needed to do that (and do it well) has only become widely available in the last year or so. The N9 just doesn't have the latest bleeding-edge GPU silicon...