Just to clear some things up:

I made this thread cause i felt the flaming/bashing was getting worse here on TMO. The problem with comparing is that if the situation you compare to is worse off, then the situation you got will seem fine up against the other situation. Though that wont change the situation you are unhappy with in any and way it will stay the same. You might see it in a different light, but still the same situation you didn't like to begin with.
E.g. I live in Denmark, lets say I'm unhappy with something in society and people tell me that peole are worse off in a lot of other countries that doesn't solve my unhappyness and things wont change if you do like this. It's just sad that they're even worse of and further away from a greater living standard.

The essence of this thread is to shed some light on my obsavations and how I feel this community is getting more abusing posters regardeless of the reasons to it.
The thing is (I think it was Vi_ who said something about action/reaction) when you interact with people theres an act and you react on that. No matter how much you try to argument that it was ok to bash/flame somebody cause of their statement/post it is still wrong. You and only you choose how to react on a certain situation. It's understandable to react aggressively when approached with aggression, but you can argue all day long about how it is the persons own falt and it still won't make the bashing/flaming acceptable/allright.

So my point is you have to take the responsebility to be the better peson no matter what the other person is like and I'm not saying you should let people stump all over you. You can easily tell people with a freindly tone that they crossed the line or violating forum rules or asking the same question for XX time.

It's very simple address people as you wished to be addressed.

@somedude to answer your question. No this is not started on the basis of your post the other day. These two situations has no relation and I've been thinking about this for a while. The only thing was that I qouted your statement as i thought it was cool and collected. That's it.

@Estel why do you think this thread should be closed and why don't you think it should've been started in the first place?

Nice to see people are chipping in with their views on the subject it's very good reading imo and we are different and see things different and that's the beauty of diversity. Really. I just wish people would try better to behave accordingly.

Regards Dousan...