There's no lack of tolerance at all. The main problem is, some people are just not polite and start demanding stuff from other users and developers. Did you check the wazzap thread leading up to release? It was a circus. If people behave like children then they can't complain if they're treated as such. Sorry but it's just the way it is. TMO is still a friendly place in my opinion and most people will get along fine with other members. Also, most will help if you ask nicely. Like Stickymick said, it's a matter of forum etiquette. It just so happens that some people are unfamiliar with the concept in the first place.