Well TBH, it's even stranger than the problem i have now
I'll make it simple:
when i connect my phone to my laptop with the added USB-cable it works perfectly. When i unplug that cable from my laptop an plug it into a usb wall charger (notice i have not unplugged on the phone side and it did not even move!) the connector acts like it is broke. The cable that worked perfectly before, had to be bend to get a proper connection.
That was the simple explenation