-*- About the autostart daemon:
Be very careful with that. It could end up in an endless loop of crashing and starting. What then? It's a nice features, but only once the app is stable enough to support it.

-*- About Mixed up conversations after media sending:
Happens to me too, I suspect some jIDs mixed or not released. You asking about it 50 times isn't going to help debugging. Nor getting it fixed faster.

-*- About design:
Short answer: no.
Long answer: project is open source on Github. Clone the repository, make changes as you wish or see fit. Submit to evaluation. That is the standard procedure.
If accepted you get all the girls, booze and swag, else you get to use it on your own device as you want. Win - Win situation.

You've seen rapid development in last 100 pages since I successfully uploaded a file.
Features were added by truck loads.
Bugs are expected. So...
Keep calm, enjoy what you have, knowing we all work on making it even better.

Thanks.

P.S. I am nice. :P