OK. its just i don't want to pollute the thread. Just cautious.
Anyway.

So My problem was in the .db file. There was a chat in there that was SOMEHOW corrupted. I didn't know that it was in the .db file until i installed the latest build from the DropBox. At startup it showed that it was loading my contacts fine... then it shows that it was loading my conversations, fine... Then it started loading a conversation, and it showed which number that contacts convo was...

I FREAKED OUT a little, and started doing research.
Lucky me, .db file type is common and was easy to find a file to open and edit it. I used SQLite from: (http://techie-buzz.com/softwares/ide...-openwith.html
I then edited the file, deleted the field that contained the corrupted convo.
Reloaded and voila!
But a heads up, it does not load everything and the 1st 2-3 times has a couple performance issues but good so far.


This was the tutorial i followed and modified it as above. Here


I Hope i help others with that.