Very strange list of packages. What documentation did you follow?

1) you listed dbg pakcages which has nothing to do with execution.
2) you don't list obexd package (which is the main)
3) rtcom-eventlogger-async is needed only for call history and MAP support in newest obexd for N900

If you want more interactive communication feel free to contact me on IRC #maemo channel.

I recommend this list of packages to install:
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/evol...ssu1_armel.deb
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/libe...ssu1_armel.deb
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/libe...ssu1_armel.deb
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/libe...ssu1_armel.deb
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/libr...ssu0_armel.deb
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/obex...ssu1_armel.deb
http://merlin1991.at/~luf/obexd/rtco...ssu0_armel.deb

I have no failure reports leading to reflash.
In case of any trouble you can downgrade back to the original state using info from wiki page http://wiki.maemo.org/Bluetooth_PBAP