in life there is a need for argue and provoke other people. even the worlds today were build because of war.. why human get to the space? because of war. cold war exactly. if there is no arguing and provoking we cannot have an achievement. so there is a war in bussiness, normal life, office,with your wife/husband and even in this forum! this is normal. i would say just stop here... give and recieve forgiveness. thats why we all have god... to forgive us. and we should forgive other people too.. why hate is so much in our people nowadays? there is no need to change that and that rules. but there is a need to change our attitude and the way of our thinking.

sorry. for my bad bad bad english and being of topic.