You guys are going about it all wrong... You need to be getting your wives devices too! That way they'll develop their own addiction ;-) That's what my husband did 5 years ago - got me my first Palm pda (Sony Clie). I was resistant at first, but resistance was futile and now I've been fully assimilated to the point where I'm fully hacking my N810 (running KDE, writing some shell scripts). My husband couldn't be prouder I would get them Palm at first - only because there's more software immediately available that will draw your wives in not to mention fashion accessories (Vaja and Piel Frama cases).