I got some help with flashing my phone and I got the N9 to be recognized then ran the following to reset the lock code:

C:\>winflasher_3.12.1.exe -f -F c:\DFL61_HARMATTAN_40.2012.21-3_PR_LEGACY_005-OE
M1-958_ARM.bin

Then the nokia and usb icons went away on the phone and the CMD window looks like this:

flasher 3.12.1 (Oct 6 2011) Harmattan
WARNING: This tool is intended for professional use only. Using it may res
in permanently damaging your device or losing the warranty.

Found device RM-696, hardware revision 1603
NOLO version 2.3.6
Version of 'sw-release': DFL61_HARMATTAN_40.2012.21-3_PR_005
Sending ape-algo image (7096 kB)...
100% (7096 of 7096 kB, avg. 29084 kB/s)

It's just sitting there with a blinking cursor, no directory. Been that way for about 30min now. Did I do something wrong? I scared to touch anything. According to someone else I may have ran the wrong command is this is true how can I remedy this?