No. Seriously this all shouldn't even happen in the public.

As to how to not make things any worse, don't try to put blame on and/or diagnose any side of the dispute, don't tell any side of the dispute how to solve this problem in this thread, and if you want to give advice to either side of the conflict, do it privately and not in public... to pay respect to both sides of the dispute. It is not seen as respectful to even speak about this here, in a public forum, especially when consent from the other party involved wasn't even implied at any point.

Ultimately it's a matter of respecting both parties involved in this conflict, and I would advice a mod to close this thread in order to ensure this utterly unrespectful behaviour towards thp doesn't continue by keeping this thread open and us therefore having a discussion here about a personal problem he and fk_lx have without he's explicit consent for allowing it to take place here & in public in general.