Treat others how you want to be treated.

If you want people to be nice to you and understanding to your side of the story, then spouting crap all over the internet in an annoying manner is not the way to go about it. For instance, defacing of the piratepad (and sure, what you're doing may not be against any terms of service, but you're still a disruptive jerk for doing it).

Just like if you had a disagreement with Wikipedia, I wouldn't consider it at all cool for you to edit their articles to call them out as a bunch of idiots. But I'd respect and agree that you have the right to call them a bunch of idiots on your own website, to no end.

All you're accomplishing, AFAICT, is publically exposing the poisonous side of your behaviour that presumably has made so many people accuse you of harassment or simply not want to deal with you anymore. And continuing that sort of destructive behaviour is just increasing the number of people on that side of the fence.