Thanks for answering. "Autodisconnect" is not installed and has never been installed.
Short update: I put in a friend's SIM-card (it is not easy,to find somebody with a normal SIM-card - everybody uses micro cards). With this card, my N900 works fine. Possibly my N900 stopped liking my Vodafone card
Funny update: The test SIM-card was from "Telekom" and this one works fine. Now if put back my Vodafone SIM-card. Now: It works.
Oh really? That does not make sense at all (but what makes sense in SW related quirks nowadaus? ). I guess the full power cycle (needed to get access to the SIM) did the trick. I had that once when the FM transmitter did not want to work. I tried everything (killing, restartong, rebooting, ...) but to no avail. Then I thought: hey, the only thing you did not try was to pull the battery. After that it worked flawlessly (up to now)!? So misiak, try that power down remove battery wait at least 10 (better 30) seconds to be on the safe side, push power button for 3 seconds insert battery boot and try