you like pichlo or myself, are not the best of targets, since we speak up and in most colourful ways.
It isn't something regular directed or including us, so we wouldn't notice it.
Likewise, in the past, resolution of differences is key.
working things out, sorting out misinterpretations, misunderstandings, apologies, etc. is ...well...being a responsible human being.
And reflecting on the past wondering if one has offended someone and it was left unresolved is as natural a feeling as wondering if one left the stove on.
So don't mull on that juiceme.
it is after all... a two way street and one can meet another half way on it, speak up and speak their mind, and tell you, or me or whomever, their hurt.
It isn't all on you ....or me...or whomever.
Likewise...I cannot help but wonder,
if I offended any, and it were left that hurt still lay there for the other,
I would hope they would speak up and get it out of their system. Nothing like clearing the air ..so to speak.
As for myself, any wound given me, is forgiven and forgotten.
I think it is perfectly normal to hurt another whether in the heat of the moment of impassioned argument, or normal human thoughtlessness , or by misinterpreting.
It is how the incident is resolved in the end that counts most.