wlan basestation might have some kind of filtering / firewall / nat which breaks things
[root@server ~]# tcpdump -nni eth1 port 8765 tcpdump: verbose output suppressed, use -v or -vv for full protocol decode listening on eth1, link-type EN10MB (Ethernet), capture size 96 bytes 00:20:23.237468 IP 192.168.1.40.51706 > 192.168.1.254.8765: S 564523059:564523059(0) win 5840 <mss 1460,sackOK,timestamp 5050050 0,nop,wscale 2> 00:20:23.237563 IP 192.168.1.254.8765 > 192.168.1.40.51706: S 3301026896:3301026896(0) ack 564523060 win 5792 <mss 1460,sackOK,timestamp 1344061286 5050050,nop,wscale 6> 00:20:23.239809 IP 192.168.1.40.51706 > 192.168.1.254.8765: . ack 1 win 1460 <nop,nop,timestamp 5050054 1344061286> 00:20:23.239883 IP 192.168.1.40.51706 > 192.168.1.254.8765: P 1:6(5) ack 1 win 1460 <nop,nop,timestamp 5050054 1344061286> 00:20:23.239919 IP 192.168.1.254.8765 > 192.168.1.40.51706: . ack 6 win 91 <nop,nop,timestamp 1344061289 5050054> 00:20:23.241714 IP 192.168.1.254.8765 > 192.168.1.40.51706: F 1:1(0) ack 6 win 91 <nop,nop,timestamp 1344061290 5050054> 00:20:23.242236 IP 192.168.1.254.8765 > 192.168.1.40.51706: R 2:2(0) ack 6 win 91 <nop,nop,timestamp 1344061291 5050054> 00:20:23.245244 IP 192.168.1.40.51706 > 192.168.1.254.8765: . ack 2 win 1460 <nop,nop,timestamp 5050055 1344061290> 00:20:23.245316 IP 192.168.1.254.8765 > 192.168.1.40.51706: R 3301026898:3301026898(0) win 0
[root@server ~]# tcpdump -nni eth1 port 8765 tcpdump: verbose output suppressed, use -v or -vv for full protocol decode listening on eth1, link-type EN10MB (Ethernet), capture size 96 bytes 00:13:22.881446 IP 192.168.1.40.55734 > 192.168.1.254.8765: S 126136818:126136818(0) win 5840 <mss 1460,sackOK,timestamp 4996244 0,nop,wscale 2> 00:13:22.881524 IP 192.168.1.254.8765 > 192.168.1.40.55734: R 0:0(0) ack 126136819 win 0
[root@server ~]# rpm -qv lirc lirc-0.8.1-1.fc6
[root@server ~]# ps ax | grep lircd 25253 ? Ss 0:00 /usr/sbin/lircd -l -H pinsys