ok, my app manager is messed up. I was just browsing through my extras and there it was! Grandcentral dialer. Even though in my app manager it says unable to install. It works perfectly fine and is a great tool. And about not the other person being able to hear me. It's miraculously fixed! I made a call using the dialer and now it works! I'm having a lucky night!

EDIT: Thx laughing man, I realized though that it was already installed. I was reading my command line log and it said wget already in the newest version so it seems that thats fixed.