with other bootmenus i have seen when i have cloned it with other methods you have to be fast and press the menu key to get the bootmenu to apear

with this one it tells you to press menu key but then loads up any way

Trust me if it was just a case of how i push the button i would have it by now, i have tried from the bottom from the top both sides pressed in hard pressed in light pressed in hard from both sides top and bottom pressed light from top bottom both sides (its got me so frustrated im close to pressing it with my foot and seeing if it activates before making it out the window!)

I am sure i have to disable bootmenu from auto loading or i need to find out how to flash with the usb recovery menu thats in boot menu (it mentions telnet is open on port 23 but that means jack to me )