ok.. I noticed my swap wasn't mounting at boot.. that may have contributed to it .. only 128MB memory and no swap... now 128/128... I think I want to expand that to 128/384 .. give me 512mb total... see if that helps with the slow down and a lot of the desktop size apps to run properly.

Anyway... important part to the post:

Again directed by your signature b-man... I got Right Click to work in GTK apps thanks to Qole/Darkman

Inside your ~/.xsessionrc file just add the line:
And also make sure you've installed libgtkstylus via apt.

Also for Stskeeps (I know, I know.. use the tracker); you might think of adding libgtkstylus to the nit-env-x dependency environment to load it out of box.. and adding .xsessionrc with that line in it to /etc/skel before creating the user account (thus making it a global user configuration).. that will enable right click support in all GTK based applications. Still not ALL apps.. but for most it works great.. and for b-man in Gnome; most all gnome apps are GTK based.. since Gnome is GTK.

ETA: b-man; 3ddesktop is highly unlikely as it depends on OpenGL.. and I'm quite certain I've seen around that OpenGL is nigh impossible to get working on this.. but maybe that was just for maemo?? i thought it was due to a hardware restriction.. the true 3d capabilities of our display aren't enabled via drivers because of screen res problems or something...