I am going to try openbox too but that script does not work, or i cant use it.

/home/user # sh stop*
Theme is glasser-12pt
stop-matchbox.sh: source: line 6: can't open /etc/osso-af-init/maemo-af-desktop.sh
/home/user #

and there is no file called maemo-af-desktop.sh in /etc/osso-af-init/