Thanks
A search of VNC lead me to other things like x11VNC and a few others that lead me to believe that I will be able to do what I want.

I am trying to make a whole house audio system from the now cheaper N800. This would be in a cabinet with a large drive and other electronics. Then I would be able to control it from the N810. If I have to then I will go to a PC but I have like many others a extra N800. Those who purchased N810 but now do not know what to do with the N800. I would like to do something with it that is exciting and useful.

I do not want or need mouse contol. I just want a simple menu of music and the ability to control it from the remote tablet.