I shouldn't respond to flamebait, and there's a lot wrong with this statement that I don't have the energy to address, but I just can't let this one fly totally unanswered, so, I'll propose a situation for you:

If every time you walked through a door, somebody slapped you in the face. You'd start to flinch when you walked through doors, wouldn't you?*


*To clarify, the only people who are to blame for anybody being defensive are the people who always insist on attacking. <rant>Sometimes it amazes me that we have any Nokians here at all considering the amount of bile people like to spew around. To the people who complain (entirely unfoundedly, I might add) about Nokia not being involved enough, stop and think about how long you'd stick around if a half-dozen people jumped down your throat about decisions your employer made every time you stuck your head in the door.</rant>