I know there have been posts about this before, but i cant seem to find what im looking for.

Im not a major audiophile but i want my music to sound as good as it can on the n810, ive been searching everywhere for wired or wireless 3.5mm headphones with a mic but all i seem to find to find are the crappy apple headphones. i personally like having in-ear headphones since they are comfortable and dont drop out of your ear every 5 minutes so are there any with a mic so i can use them with my n810? also can i buy a stereo bluetooth headset and use that?