SOLUTION FOUND!!

I returned the N-810 and purchased an Advent ADV3500PC 7" Portable GPS Navigation with built in Tablet PC for $270USD (shipped), or about the cost of the N-810 plus the Nav subscription. It's a 7" Windows XP tablet with built-in GPS. I expect to be able to not only use the IP camera's web client, but also install my IPcam monitoring software so i can see the baby cam and all future cameras in full screen, plus all the other features. It should get here tomorrow

I really appreciate all the help i received here, but unfortunately I just couldn't find the magical combination of command line parameters to make this application work in my device. All my knowledge of VBA, C++, and even my MS in Nuclear Engineering were just not enough training to figure this out. This was mainly due to my lack of free time with my job and new baby and just the fact that i wasn't willing to put up with all the frustration, especially given the alternative I found.

Overall, the N-810 is a great little device with lots of potential, answers VoIP calls well, checks your e-mail, and surfs the web just fine, but if you're trying to view your IP cams on it, i'd strongly suggest staying away from it. Unless you're already intricately familiar with linux, I'd go with a windows-based solution if you want your stuff to just work.