Whether anywhere *native* here wants to admit it or not, the mindset of interacting within this community begins and matures as the person becomes more familiar with a developer mindset. Yes, its possible to not be a developer and very much enjoy this community, I am a testimony of that. But that doesn't take away from the fact that towards anything short of a Type-A, Prosumer, you'd have some issues here, and its totally social, not technological.