I have been here only few days and already I know what you are talking about. I might be totally wrong about what you are referring to, but I don't think I am. There are people who think that if they don't get participation or immediate support to their cause, the other people are being rude or unfriendly.

Seldom have I thought with valid reasons that not doing something is actually unfriendly or rude. One can never know the reasons behind one's actions when there is none, but it is way easier to see rude or unfriendly behaviour when such actually does occur. Lack of something, in my opinion cannot be defined rude nor unfriendly. Rude and/or unfriendly, by definition in my books, calls for active participation with aforementioned attitude.

So, to all of you out there thinking t.m.o is unfriendly, think again. It might just be your expected standards that define what is what, not the forum in question.