Yea, I was referring to the shadow, in photoshop, instead of a drop shadow I used an outer glow.

I'm not sure how to describe it in those terms but in Photoshop....

Blend Mode: Normal
Range: 100
Opacity: 80
Spread: 0
Size: 8

This is why I was wondering if I could just give you a png of the background of the widget with the shadow/gradient etc. Does that work?