After worrying every time when I disconnected my charger it would be the last I went and bought a new charger today and grinded it down. I also had a spare CA-101 usb cable which I also grinded down.

In the first picture is both my CA-101's. Notice the one on the right, the hooks are a lot higher than the one that came with the phone. I didn't even attempt to put this one in the phone out of fear that it would rip out the port -



This could serve as a warning for people that use other CA-101's with their phone, make sure it's not as jagged as this one.

My spare from a different angle -



After grinding -



And finally this is an after shot of my new charger that I grinded down after testing that it worked of course .



Both the charger and usb cable work fine and they glide easily in and out of the port with very little resistance. Now I can relax!