Ok my problem is a bit surreal! Spent last night on the n900 trying to fix it! - failed! Wireless refused to work.... Got home this morning, tried apt-get -d install libicd-network-ipv4, it said it failed as the file was the original. Without rebooting i tried to connect to the home wireless and it is working..... Random! But i must say a huuuge thank you to all of you have have stuck around to help us/me out on here.