first off... just cause no fellow ladies have responded, GREAT title u have there o.O :P way to be inclusive

but to speak from a woman perspective... the n900 isnt really that big. i remember the first time i opened the box and went "oh this isn't as big as i thought it would be". mind you it is a heavy piece of hardware, but i like that weight. lets me know im actually carrying it. besides its thickness, it is slightly smaller than most smartphones out there. and i dont carry a purse (hate them too bulky), i mainly carry it in my jean or jacket pocket, no problems there. and i have slightly small hands, so the keyboard actually doesnt feel cramped at all and allows me to type mad fast.

its been a great media player, took it around traveling, it literally replaced my laptop.