Do I miss the Instructions in the package or am I just being blonde?

If somebody can help me please, would love to change the Wifi signal icon and the Bluetooth icon.

Any help on changing the leds would be highly appreciated too !! (yes I've read the wiki but can't do it...Don't know how to open the file with vim...)

o.k. just plain and simple am probably a stupid woman, would like to change those things but don't wanna mess up my phone but on the other side want to learn stuff too.

If any 'knight in shining amour' want to do a good deed,
please send me a PM and I would be very happy. !!!

Hope that somebody has some time to help me.
(MSN on request if that is easier).

TIA !!