Dude.. I was right with you about the complaints until you started to get all aggro on everyone and started throwing around the 'apologist' label to dismiss people out of hand instead of responding to them intelligently. Take it from someone that complains a lot, himself, and has to consciously sit back sometimes to realize when it stops being constructive to do so. Opposing labelers might call you a 'troll' for that and overlook any valid points you might raise.