Civil, yeah... but you won't be completely popular by singling out women.

And my data set is admittedly limited, but out of the 4 people using cell phones in the house, here's how my family breaks down:

Me: rarely any problem losing or damaging phones
Wife: frequent trouble abusing her phones (purse seems to be culprit)
Son #1: constant problem losing, breaking and forgetting to charge phones
Son #2: occasional lost phones but impeccable care when he has them



EDIT: out of that set, take a wild guess who pays for, finds and fixes phones.