>3g with tmobile. I dont have an internet plan with tmobile so it doesnt affect me

You got an N900 (an internet tablet, that happens to have a phone) without an internet plan?

Essentially your points, which I agree with, are comparing the iPhone as a phone with the N900 as a phone.. N900 is very immature in this regard. Give it 5 years or however long iPhone has been out and I'm sure it will be better..