I'm sure my wife won't mind when I get up and turn on the light so I can plug "that thing" in properly so I don't stress the connector before going to bed.
Easier said than done It's those pesky darn accidents that always get you.
If the hooks weren't needed (or need to be as big) I'm sure they would save money and design the cables with smaller hooks, or without them, right?
And void your warranty in the process
All good advice, but I shouldn't have to immediately void my warranty, start modifying cables, changing habits, annoying my wife, etc just so I don't have to worry about being without my $500+ device that I become more dependent on every day. Mind you, I filed the hooks completely off all my cables, I'm careful when I put the plug in, and will probably epoxy it (after the warranty expires, assuming it makes it that long). But I shouldn't have to do any of that.
Bear in mind that not everyone who has had this problem voted in this poll. Ultimately, we have no idea how widespread this is. Our community is just a small subset of all the N900's sold. Quadruple the number of people that took this poll ~2000, even if no more people have issues, that's still around 3% failure rate. That is unacceptable to me. I am very concerned that this could be an issue in the future no matter how careful I am. If I were looking to buy a N900 and was unsure, this would certainly give me pause.