Fo F sake! Sorry.
I just hate this kind of troubleshooting. You said in your first post:
"wont come back on" and "..forcing the firmware on with out the phone being on"
And now it looks like that it comes on in terms of power but not in terms of system. ARGH.

Follow guide here:
http://wiki.maemo.org/Updating_the_tablet_firmware

And please charge your phone before procedure.

.edit
Just please try to be more specific next time so we wont waste your or anybody else's time.