> some Nokia execs appear reluctant to process negative feedback Not the line of managers from my boss to the CEO, nor other managers in my team, deciding the future of maemo and the tablets. These people are quite flexible and open to improve or reinvent what is not going well or well enough. Then you might or might not like all their decisions, but the decision process overall makes sense and includes a lot of research and listening.
You probably want to say that not all or not many of these priorities are matched. I wouldn't say the whole community is completely disatisfied either. There is progress, only two years ago almost nothing of all this existed publicly. Perhaps part of the expectations missmatch is a matter of understanding corporate software development processes and speed compared to OSS community hackers coding and releasing.
> if both "sides" have the proper information to realize that either Feature X is... This is precisely why I'm getting so stubborn about http://maemo.org/intro/roadmap.html , linked pages and the process to update them, inside Nokia and the community.
> New and potential users will base decisions on whether or not to buy a tablets based on what they skim here While the optimism and recommendations done in spaces like ITT might have a noticeable impact in sales, this is in general another type of argument you can drop in your dialog with Nokia. Go instead for argumentations around what makes sense and what doesn't make sense according to the Nokia products and strategy. "Syncing with Nokia phones should be a no brainer" or "the use of a system-wide database should be enforced" are good examples of winning arguments. "User X asked about YYY but since it's not in the tablet won't buy it" is not.
> Since it can do nearly anything, people want it to. That's a dilemma for Nokia, Not really. I hope nobody thinks that Nokia chosed to create a platform based on Linux, Debian and GNOME and never thought that the open source community would pick that base and try to do lots of things with it. Nokia wants to push and ride the *top drivers* of the tablets and the software inside and wants to not be an obstacle to all the rest of possible use cases, to be developed by third parties (community, companies, whatever). Nokia leading all possible developments is senseless, or at least not according to the strategy around maemo and the tablets.