They have made many public statements and are trying to keep people informed as much as possible:
http://wiki.maemo.org/What_can_we_re...or_my_N900_.3F

What massive problems? Financially Nokia is fine. The MeeGo project is drawing a lot of early support. The N900 is more successful than expected. So where are things so dire?

How so? What is unfair? Lack of info? The link I gave above gives lots of official info. There's more available elsewhere, that's just one source.

If they're pissed it's because they're not paying attention to what is actually happening.

The N900 and Maemo are not being forgotten by Nokia, they are both still fully supported. More updates are coming. The N900 has been announced as the reference ARM platform for MeeGo development.

The community is definitely not on life support. For example, there are extensive discussions going on in the fledgling MeeGo community about how to get both the Moblin and Maemo communities productively and successfully involved. The community issue is being considered in a thorough, thoughtful way by community members and official representatives of involved companies such as Quim Gil, Dawn Foster, texrat, and many, many others.

You should check into stuff more before posting uninformed FUD based only on the fact that for some unclear reason you're not happy.