when I reviewed some d-bus script, I found this one: http://wiki.maemo.org/Phone_control#...rently_playing

dbus-send --dest=com.nokia.mafw.renderer.Mafw-Gst-Renderer-Plugin.gstrenderer /com/nokia/mafw/renderer/gstrenderer com.nokia.mafw.renderer.pause

and then I thought that would be helpful if you could with similar scripts to control the music through QBW ...

then only i replaced "pause", with appropriate command ... AND ITWORKS! : D
here's the script:
PLAY:
dbus-send --dest=com.nokia.mafw.renderer.Mafw-Gst-Renderer-Plugin.gstrenderer /com/nokia/mafw/renderer/gstrenderer com.nokia.mafw.renderer.play
PAUSE:
dbus-send --dest=com.nokia.mafw.renderer.Mafw-Gst-Renderer-Plugin.gstrenderer /com/nokia/mafw/renderer/gstrenderer com.nokia.mafw.renderer.pause
STOP:
dbus-send --dest=com.nokia.mafw.renderer.Mafw-Gst-Renderer-Plugin.gstrenderer /com/nokia/mafw/renderer/gstrenderer com.nokia.mafw.renderer.stop
PREVIOUS:
dbus-send --dest=com.nokia.mafw.renderer.Mafw-Gst-Renderer-Plugin.gstrenderer /com/nokia/mafw/renderer/gstrenderer com.nokia.mafw.renderer.previous
NEXT:
dbus-send --dest=com.nokia.mafw.renderer.Mafw-Gst-Renderer-Plugin.gstrenderer /com/nokia/mafw/renderer/gstrenderer com.nokia.mafw.renderer.next

and you could rearrange it on your desktop in a manner so it would you be comfortable if you using it with your one hand!
great, isn't it??

but now..... it would be cool if i knew a script for Fast Forward.... Rewind.... or best thing it would be if it could skip or go back 5-10 sec.... (if you press a widget for a longer time, it will be shown a "desktop menu"...)
and another thing....: Pause cmd only pauses the song... it won't continue... (play cmd starts from beginning of the song....)

SO PEOPLE... if you could help me with finding a proper scripts (for missing ones), i would be grateful!

P.S. and i found a way to make a PHONE APP icon (widget in this case) bigger!
THX No!No!No!Yes! for QBW