For all those, who say its not a problem, if Nokia does that - is it a problem when another company does it ? What if other installed software also wants to send SMS ? What if more than one SMS gets sent ? Is two also ok ? ... or 5, or 10 ?

Where do you want to draw the line ?

I draw my line at zero SMS from nobody.
This behavior is not ok, not by Nokia and not by any one else. Period.