Although the rest of your post kind of indicates you're starting to get the idea, the above quoted part shows you still have some realisation left to do.

http://maemo.org/intro/ <-- Note the number of times 'community' is mentioned in the opening paragraphs. Basically, as I see it the reason users who come here merely to complain are given short shrift is that this site should be for users who are after assistance and are able to ask for it in a clear and polite manner and who are willing to contribute their assistance in return. http://linux.oneandoneis2.org/LNW.htm problem #3 is relevant here, I believe.