There may be some hope still......i have been speaking with nokia technical support about this issue. They have stated that flash 10.1 is coming but are very vague about when. The last email(yesterday) i got said the following:

Hi Neo,

This is a follow-up email regarding our call. I want to inform that I called adobe and they said that they don't have official statement when they will release flash player 10.1. The news/release date will be posted on their offical website, WWW.ADOBE.COM. THX

Ren
N900 Tech Support