In other words or shorter: A good community should have moderators using the rules sensible, and not use rules to express their feelings or support for friends or "homeboys". I hope i understand you correctly.
Moderator assignments have not been about "close buddies". In fact, we've had people volunteer and were seconded by others, as well as many who were nominated by community members. If anything, the admin (Reggie) may well be pathologically opposed to a simple "hey buddy wanna be a mod?" approach, based on the history of that subject here (for a very long time we had ZERO moderators).
@Nathraiben: Yes, I can see that we want the exact same outcome in this case (sensible moderation), just with two polar concerns (mods use common sense to extend their reach outside of the core rule vs mods use common sense to exercise only the necessary parts of the extensive rules)
At any rate, we've put out our concerns out there and hopefully it gets some consideration..