found a way to lock the messaging app,
or more like a crash/disable of the messaging app!
2 buttons, 1 causes the messaging app to stop working, and 1 makes it work again, for keeping your woman from seeing your 'other' womans texts!
although when she figures out what these 2 buttons do were gonna need a new solution, not that im a cheater or anything!
when lock button is pressed messaging wont open and hopefully new txts wont arrive until unlock button is pressed
if your interested ill post up a guide